Sunday, March 10, 2019

Hard Choices for Loving People


This month I am looking into certification for Palliative Care and Advanced Hospice Chaplaincy with the National Association of Catholic Chaplains.  The prerequisite is a minimum of five years and 500 hours practice in palliative or hospice care chaplaincy.  I just have over 750 hours in palliative care chaplaincy and am preparing for interview this month.  I am not certain if I want to specialize in palliative care because it is only a fraction of what I do in the hospital.  I am discerning whether to specialize in this area or remain a generalist.  There are fourteen competencies that need to be demonstrated in word and practice.  The following posts describe those competencies without the details of my case studies that are confidential.  

Here are the two little guides that are recommended by the National Association of Catholic Chaplains (click on titles to see the more detail).  They are short and simple, but offer important information that is most helpful.  It is most important to remember to be kind to yourselves as you move through the grief process after the death a loved one.  Don't try to bull through it.  You are not alone, but each of us moves through grief in our own unique way.  Even within one family spouses and siblings each have their own way.  Love each other through it.  Give yourself time to mourn and honor sacred memories.
Sister Donna Maria 


What to expect in one to three months prior to death; one to two weeks prior to death; one or two days prior to death and in the final hours.   



Most common decisions that need to be considered when discussing the goals of medical care with the physician.  Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation (CPR), Feeding Tubes (Artificial Nutrition and Hydration); Palliative Care and Hospice Care; Treatment Options; Emotional and Spiritual Issues.