Monday, April 1, 2019

Stretch of the Imagination




For the first time now LCWR leadership has no one with a lived experience of the time when CMSW became the LCWR.  (This change came about out of the desire of some congregations to include more than Major Superiors in leadership decisions. Not every congregation joined this movement and later those who refused to join LCWR formed the group called CMSWR).  The LCWR is going through an emerging learning process, interviewing women within and outside of religious life.  An interesting comment from one of these groups, Giving Voice, a group of religious women younger than 40, is that religious life today is in a “Crisis of Imagination.”  Why is that?  Sr. Mary proposed it is because of a need for privacy, for independence and false perceptions of what it would cost us to work side by side with others.  What will it take to initiate a stretch of the imagination.



She named some of the false perceptions that stand in our way: 

1.      Women are from Venus; men are from Mars. We believe we can’t really understand one another and work together.

2.      LCWR is a radical liberal group that is disrespectful of the Church. They are not authentic religious.  They live religious vows too loosely.

3.      Sisters who wear habits are too conservative.

4.      CMSWR are ultra conservative and not open to new ways. They want to return to pre-Vatican II days.



Sisters in congregations that belong to neither LCWR nor CMSWR say that they left LCWR because they wear the habit and Sisters who don’t wear the habit made them feel unwelcome; they tried joining the CMSWR but found that their members were too self-righteous and were always bad mouthing the LCWR. (Is it time to form a new group that combines the strengths of both of the others with some better guidelines for how to cooperate with one another??)



Sisters ministering in the U.S. from other countries suffer the perception that they only want to work with people from their ethnic group and that they don’t speak English.  Most of them do speak English and want to learn it better and work with English-speaking people. 

March 31, 2019 a presentation by Sr. Mary Hughes, OP at Diocese of San Jose Chancery Office.